Saturday 18th February
Thank you for remembering my son
Thank you for saying his name
Please don’t think it’ll make me sad
Please don’t think it’ll cause me pain.
Please keep on mentioning him
Telling me all your recollections
He had so many adventures
Please keep him in your affections.
I really need you to speak his name
To acknowledge that he was once here
A massive part of all our lives
Leaving many memories so dear.
You can’t erase those thirty years
You won’t upset me by sharing stories
So shout his name loud and clear
Celebrate his life and all it’s glories.
My treasured Angel Frank
Love you so much
Missing you always
xxxxxx
Sometimes the pain goes away
sometimes it just lies there
Making it impossible to move
God I’ve been there
And at times I wish life
Didn’t give us that reminder
But LIFE has this underbelly
To which it will
Expose itself to you
As Sheldon Always
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Thank you very much Sheldon for sharing your insightful thoughts.
The pain rumbles along, as you stumble along, trying to avoid the obstacles thrown at you.
Yes, it is hard, but we just try to keep going as best we can.
Take good care.
Melanie x
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For sure
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x 😊 x
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Beautiful words!
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Most kind.
Thank you.
x
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Lovely poem to keep the memory ever fresh in the present!!
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Very many thanks for your kind words.
Much appreciated.
x
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You’re welcome. ♥*♥*♥
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I’m still in therapy 48years later, and while I’ve learned to live with it and found a way around it, I still haven’t forgotten what it felt like to come home from that hospital with empty arms! The only thing that saved my sanity was Jennifer’s brother, 18 month old Mic, still cuddly and seemingly knowing I needed him in my arms right that moment! 😇
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No, you’ll never forget, will you?
Just so pleased you had little Mic to give you purpose to carry on at that sad, and terrible time. You just call upon all the strength that you didn’t know you possessed.
Take care.
Melanie x
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My memories will never be suppressed either! I still have her first gasp of breath, the only one I heard before she was rushed out to the Intrusive Care Nursery. And I have one picture that somehow survived the pre-acid free storage methods we had back then! A Poloroid, at that, and I thank God for photo editing technology every day! That is the only way I was able to rescue that one photo!
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So pleased you have you have that precious photograph to treasure.
Take good care.
x
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Good to hear you want to talk about him not suppress your memories or grief.
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Thank you.
And no, my memories will never, ever be suppressed. I just won’t let that happen.
x
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your Frank had a wonderful life, being so loved. Your tributes to him, are proof of that.
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Ahhh, thank you very much indeed.
x
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Most beautiful mom and thoughts. He is so remembered. Blessings and healing to you.
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So very kind of you to say so.
Thank you.
x
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https://polldaddy.com/js/rating/rating.jsStaying taking over him gives your heart a good feeling.
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👼 x 👼
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